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writes:I'm not an overly shy person, but this situation is making me feel incredibly timid, and I don't know how to go about it.I work at a mall, and from the entrance, I can see across to the other store. I'm not usually anywhere near the entrance, but recently, I've gotten to talking to the girl who stands there and greets people. And I've noticed a guy that I find to be very attractive, working at the store across the way. One of his coworkers came over to our store, and we stopped him, to ask if my guy was single or not. He told us he wasn't single, then went back, and I was kinda bummed out. But then he came back a few minutes later to say that the guy actually WAS single. So then we saw him go back and talk to the guy and point at us. I felt so embarassed that I immediately looked away. I didn't see his reaction. But he's caught me looking at him a few times, so I think he knows it's me that's interested. I'd like to go and talk to him, but I feel so 'on the spot' now that I'm suddenly super shy. So I was wondering if anyone had any ideas of what to do from here?He works at a restuarant, so it's not like I could 'go shopping' there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008): Yes, have nothing more to do with him. He as proved he is a liar/manipulator in the first sentence he's spoken. Who knows, he may even be married.
Of course he's attractive, so you may already be blind to such obvious observations.
Good luck
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