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writes:HI I have been married three times since I was eighteen years old until now 48..and have four childreen ,I don't know why but my latest wife loves me moore than all the rest put together.But I just cant seem ton feel for her in the way she feels for me.We have been together for over fourteen years we have a thirteen year old Daughter who I love dearly.I married my Partner only three months ago. We always argue alot over our Daughter and mother and Daughter contantly argue this upsets me deeply and I seem to spend all my time being a referee between them. I own a second house my wife nows about it and understands my reasons for keeping it when my last wifes threw me out because they found love somewhere else I was left on the street without any money or a roof over my head.When things get heated at home I would use it as a flag to stop the fighting by saying I am leaving and moving out this tend stop the fighting but never for long.I often wonder what my life would be like if I was to move out altogether,I dont know if the grass is greener or not but I do know that Iam very uhappy and have been for a very long time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2008): Hi
You do sound unhappy actually and to have a safty net proves it. Are the arguments that bad really? Is running always the best way? Can you not change the situation and put your foot down? Peace comes from within and i have often done the same as you, for the sake of peace but unrest always returned. I once felt like running forever because every one around me was hell bent on creating chaos and upsetting the home enviroment. Maybe you need to look at if and how you can confront the chaos to resolve how you FEEL. Running can make the situation worse yet i know staying can too????????????????? DETACHMENT look at this area, detachment does not have to be physical. If your unhappiness is very deep maybe this is the time to stop running and look within.
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