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writes:To make a long story short my ex-girlfriend cheated on me and eventually we broke up. She dated the other guy for two month (purely about sex) then we got together and it didn't last. We ended up not talking for 7 months and recently hooked up and had sex.She always has me go down on her but she won't give me head. She used to but she told me she doesn't like doing it to me. She admitted she blew the guy (who she cheated with) she eventually dated after we broke up the first time. She also said she blew another guy she had sex with twice because she said she thought she liked him but then realized she didn't. So essentially she have blow jobs to the 2 guys she had sex after me. So I guess I am trying to figure out why she keeps telling me she loves me but doesn't want to be serious - she feels she is too young and want to have fun (she's 26) - but wants me in her life. She will have sex with me and have me go down on her but she won't do it to me. She give some shit about it being to emotional... what's that about?
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reader, jj2000la +, writes (12 July 2011):
jj2000la is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the response... You're right, I dont know what went wrong and how she became this way but all I do know is that it's not me, it's her. Sucks because she was my best friend and I never did anything to deserve this. Thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2011): Honestly, I think she may just be playing you. Wanting something done to her but refusing to do it to someone else is selfish and quite hypocritical in my opinion.
I think you are something of a back up plan to her. She likes knowing she has a fall back (a quality of a very insecure person if you ask me) and will say anything to keep you hanging (that she loves you).
I personally would think about letting it go and finding someone more honest.
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