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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid,so my bf loves me and can do anything for me no doubt.but since we went back home for our holidays,I have been doing most of the calling and texting.I talked to him about itbut he always comes up with the excuse of 'I was going to call you.I was going to text you.'.now its really beginning to be a bother.and I'm also getting pissed about it.
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reader, confuzzledamethyst  +, writes (20 August 2012):
 hey hun
I agree let him text/call you first leave it untill you hear from him if you don't in a few days you might notice somethings up!! I know you probably can't resist wanting to talk to him but before you pick up your phone think about the fact if he really wants to talk to you he will text/call you first!! i'm sure he wants to but he might be busy or something if communications really break down and you are doing all the work maybe you should think about moving onto someone who really deserves you!!! ;) xx
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (20 August 2012):
 I agree with 'so very confused' you need to let him miss you,how about you don't text him,or don't call him for a bit..let him miss you,give him a chance to miss you..
I have said this before the minute the men know(not all but quite the majority)that they have the girls under their spell they don't really make an effort,cause they know their girlfriends would..
So what your doing here is not letting your man miss you by being around all the time,so don't call or text..
What I would do is,when he would call or text I wldnt answer just a couple of times,and then tell him 'I just did that to show you how it feels when the other person is not making an effort'..sometimes all these games just need to happen..
Good luck
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reader, katiekate  +, writes (20 August 2012):
 Stop calling and texting him. If he cares enough to want to speak to you, he will. Relationships have to be equal, and it sounds like yours is very one-sided.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2012): I reckon you should stop being the first to initiate contact. If he cares for you, he will begin to wonder why you're not contacting him.
Let him know how it feels to be less of a priority.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 August 2012):
 well honey if you are doing all the work it's not a very even relationship... you need to let him miss you enough to contact you.
if he does not contact you after a reasonable period of time, then he's not as into the relationship as you are.
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