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30-35,
*aiti30
writes:Ok so this guy, Sebastian, we've been dating for 2 weeks, and we already have teh most amazing connection ever, but im his first relationship in 3 years, he's slept with alot of women, and im afraid that ehs going to cheat, i am the jealous type so when he talks about other girls i kinda get depressed, but i get over it, so a few days ago he was suppose to come see me, he never did, his excuse was that he had no gas in his car, which is not true cause he was hanging out with friends, and he said hed make it up to me, well he came over the day after that, he said wed hang out till 11 at night, he arrived at 4, left at 7:30 saying he had shit to do, which is a lie cause he hung with people, and today he was suppose to come over, he promised me he would, guess what? he never did, we text and stuff but he never tells me why. I dont know what to do in this situation... What is he doing? how can i fix this? can i fix it? please help me...
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reader, cassanra") +, writes (27 March 2010):
 Wow. i once dated a guy like that.
no good trust me girl. your his fall back bitch. when he is bored or just wants something to do thats when yu pop up in his head. dont fall for his little lies trust me. just slowly fade away you dont need someone like that in yur life.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 Sorry, but from where I am sitting reading, it does not sound like the connection is as amazing from his side as you perhaps think it is or want it to be.
I know it is frustrating when people repeatedly don't do what they say they are going to, but in order not to drive yourself nuts on this, keep in mind we are talking about 2 weeks here and he would be crazy if he started blowing off his long time friends and making his world revolve around you at this stage.
I think that you may be, in some ways, making your world revolve around him tho, and probably always feel like you are waiting, ... waiting for him to call, waiting for him to see you, ... altering your plans so you can sit and wait for these things???
If so don't, as the old saying goes, 'the watched kettle never boils', ... meaning that waiting on something makes it seem all the more longer and drawn out, ... and therefore all the more frustrating and eventually dissapointing. So, go about your life, just as you did 3 weeks ago before he came on the scene, and when it is convienient to BOTH of you get together.
on;t sit and wait tho, your torturing yourself and putting your life on hold whilst he is still going abot his with time flying by.
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