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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi, well ive posted a question back in April about my ex's brother and me. I know it sounds bad but it all started in April with him texting me about having sex with each other.So we did have sex a few times.No one knows about it.Not his girlfriend nor my ex.I know i should feel guilty but i dont.Ive always had this attraction to him. The problem is i have a baby with my ex and he has a baby with his girlfriend.He said we should stop having sex (it was only like 5 times) so i said ok its fine if we stop.But the problem is we havent stopped. Whenever were home alone we have sex.Yes its protected. My question is why does he keep coming back to me if things are good with his girlfriend and him. i know they have sex but every chance he gets. Hes texting me about sex and lets have sex again.What should i do? I wanna stop but i cant. Every time he says, "can we have sex?" i say "okay." I just dont know what to do about this how do i get over it and just move on with my life. I need some advice!!! PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (18 June 2011):
There is no such word as can't. Quite simply nothing or no-one is forcing you to have sex and therefore you can say no. I think it's more of a case you don't want to.
The situation is a mess already and then if people find out, all hell will break loose.
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