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writes:I am seeing my friends brother and she dont no but i also have a partner of my own.I dont like the deceit but what can i do? I can't leave my partner because i dont work. I'm on the sick due to a car accident and i need him to pay my mortgage... i know that sounds bad but what do ..?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): Hunny,
I wasnt having ago I really wanted to help you understand a little, dont be to hard on yourself ok...Everybody makes mistakes in life its the way we learn and grow..I believe something good comes out of something bad if we learn from lifes ups and downs... If you need a chat mess me ok hun I hope your ok I think to let people know is a hard decition to make in itself your braver than you think... TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell its all out in the open and its a sticky mess dont we just wish life were easy i think my partner is going to leave but im still in the middle cos i do love him but i love the other one to oooooo what a mess i just carnt get my head round it , its no a game anymore and which ever way i turn im just letting someone down but i do need a job and that is my main worrie cos i can see me with nothing i no its what i deserve
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007): lovey,
I no you are in a right mess at the moment, and you have been very honest in telling the truth. But im going to be honest with you, you canot live like this,
You cant use someone for their money, you are not been truthfull to your friend and you go home to your partner after being with your friends brother, Sweetheart take a good look at your life and what hurt could come out of it. I dont want to come across like i dont understand as i do, very much so, there are certain times in life when we have to take in to account our actions and how they will affect our future...THROW A PEBBLE IN A POND AND SEE THE RIPPLES..
That is like life we make ripples with our actions, i hope you understand me and love im not judging you at all please Please take care hun xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (15 June 2007):
 I think you are very brave to openly say this, you are being very selfish to say the least not only are you being unfaithful you are using your boyfriend to get your mortgage paid, surely if you are sick due to a car accident the insurance company will pay the mortgage due to loss of earnings, i'm sorry to be so harsh but if you carry on the way you are at the moment people are going to get hurt you included because these things always come out eventually and you could end up losing both the men in your life, get some advice on getting your mortgage paid through the insurance and make a decision about the men and which one you really want to be with.
Take care.xx.
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reader, love-him +, writes (15 June 2007):
 You need to leave him. You should not cheat on him and you should not use him for his money. imagine if it was the other way around and it was him doing it to you. leave him, for this other guy or for someone else. this man deserves the truth and someone not using him.
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