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male
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anonymous
writes: I am rubbish in bed! I come too soon and don't be able to satisfy a woman in any way. I need help! Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, DrPsych +, writes (21 June 2006):
This is rather more about your self confidence than your physical abilities I think! If you assume you will be bad in the bedroom then you have put yourself in a frame of mind where the inevitable happens. Remember that sex is about two people - a sympathetic patient woman will show you how to satisfy her sexually whereas an immature girl may just pick faults thus making you even more nervous. If you REALLY think this is a major problem then you could seek the help of a sexual therapist - they can advise you on how to avoid premature ejaculation etc. Your doctor maybe able to refer you to specialist services.
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