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writes:life for is very depressing i live in town in ireland where there is nothing but houses and small few shopni gym and no nightlife and no where to go.very very few sports clubs..i hate the town i dying to leaave it but i can,t.i am 29 yaers old and i never had eny thing i can, list them out.i am so depressed life is passing me by there is nothing i can, do about it,i am not lucky at all.i have no friends i have never had a boyfreindi can,t get job out of the towni have no social life never had onei have no car i have never went on hoilday.i am still living at home guys rejected me and hate me all the time.they guys who rejected me always find a girlfreind even if a few months.but me i get nothing only yet another broken and cold rejection.and only good things happen to nasty people.bad things happen to people who suffer, when is very unfair it really.why he treated her bad like he me.oh no we wouldn,t that because fancies her and not me .so i derserve to treated like piece of dirt but the girl he feels below belt for doesn,t becasue she is what he wants and she didn,t hurt him like he hurted me .thats is so unfair.some thing eles thats sad about i brougt aftersahve to remind of guy,because i have nonei have image problem i can,r stand the mirror to look at it.guys can,t the sight of me .i have low self estreem.i spend my life going to counselliors since i was 6 yaers old and he doesn,t help,and ireland is recessing just make matters worse ,life is is possible i can,t emmigranted.i am really stressed and depressedi see people with every thing,good job,freinds,boyfrends,car,they go on hoildays,a good social life ,goodlooks ,momey,confidence,they lucky i am not,i have nothing
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): orginal post:
emporessmystique i do want help my self i just can,t.i got my cv done up in the new today.i brought stuff for my hair,i am diet pills,i got provising lisence,i am going counsellor to help me with my deprssion if she can help,you see what you don,t understand i have through a lot of rejectionbeing called names and being bulilled as a child at school.i grew up in house with no toilet it was 200 yaers old house i used ald hosue(out side toilet) in frezing winters,they guy i was talking about to you is not nice why i am mad is that hes not nice bloke his olging girls breasts as they walking by,in front of other girls,always locker talking in ear shot of others girls in tarining hall.eye up 17 yaer old girls in tight tops.
and that why i mad becasue he likes this girls and fancy him,he turn hot and cold when ever it suits him.
you weren,t there but i did nothing to him and i liked him .but he told me in so many word didn,t want to be seen with me,i asked him to dance being nice he said no,i said he look nice, then he got nasty turned around and told me go away and he didn,t like me out the blue,so i ran out the nighclub 4 in the morning in a strange city by my self, and he went off french kissing a girl in frond of me who was a lot heavy and older then me.thenhe told go away away and he didn,t like me ,because i am fat,short,ugly, and i mad why he gets away with it,
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): Instead of looking at what everyone else has, start looking at yourself...reinvent yourself. Get some good selfhelp books, find another counselor, join some online dating sites, and have fun with that for a while...it's a great esteem booster! And who knows, you may even find the man of your dreams!
I know what it is like to see what others have and be living a miserable life...it's very depressing! I live in a lower middle class section of Phoenix, AZ, but I work In Scottsdale AZ, I see how the Wealthy live on a daily basis. And if I let it, it could cause me to be depressed all the time. But I have changed my mind-set, and I learned how to make the best of what I do have. I have a nice little mobile home, that I have turned into my own private sanctuary that I love coming home to. I buy most of my material things second hand.
Although I am now in a long distance relationship, which is with a wonderful guy I met online, I was alone for a while. And even then I tried to be grateful for what I have. My son sent me his old laptop last Christmas. That's when my life really picked up! I found a dating site which wasn't very expensive and with encouragement from friends and family, I joined. At first it felt awkward and wierd, but within days I had all kinds of men contacting me. It began to make me smile...alot! I didn't take any of those guys seriously...it was just for fun. But four months later I found the love of my life! There were so many coincidences that made this guy stand out! For one...our conversations never got sexual in the beginning, we just really got to know each other, I gave him my phone number after only two times chatting with him online. My instincts told me he was different! After 3 months of talking nonstop he sent me a ticket to go visit him (he lives 2700 miles away) I truly believe we were in love long before we ever laid eyes on one another in person. Since then he has visited me and is planning another visit shortly. He has asked me to marry him and my response was "duh?" which made him laugh...we actually get eachothers humor! He has sent me flowers, jewelry, and all kinds of cards. He has made me the happiest I have ever been (I had a miserable life, most of my life) Our big dilemma now is which one of us is going to make the big move to the other side of the country...but I know for sure...we WILL be together soon!
I am telling you all this because I want you to believe that your life can change with the click of a mouse, or the blink of an eye! Don't give up hope...miracles do happen! I am living proof of that!
Continue counseling (find a new one if necessary) and try to empower yourself, by making changes in your life. Take babysteps at first. Learn to pamper yourself first, and eventually you will find someone to do it for you!!!!!
Good Luck and Happy Thoughts!
Britt
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): orginal post:emporessmystique i don,t feel sorry for my self life extermely hard for me.i spend 3 yaers send out cvs if read my letter you don,t understand.doing my self up like empty headed model is going to help.i live in ireland if you have very been there you,d know
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