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writes: Hi there.I have been with my partner for 5 years+.She recently went to Canada with her job.She was away for just over a month.Since we started going out, when we have sex we do not use condoms, as she is on the pill. We have never used a condom from day 1 of our relationship. In the past I have suggested we use condoms as she had complained that, being on the pill, she found it hard to loose weight.She clearly informed me that she didn't want to use condoms at all.Last night she returned from Canada and we were getting down to business. After foreplay just before we started having intercourse, she asked if I had a condom?.....I asked why and she said, she had run out of the pill and had not taken it in 2 weeks. She said she would perfer to use a condom as it was coming up to her period and didn't want to get pregnant. This I understand, but this situation has arisen before and she never asked me to use a condom.I am now paronoid that she may have slept with another guy while she was in Canada. Is there any basis for my fears??????
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): Ever thought that she might be thinking the same thing you are? You never know maybe she wonders what you got up to!! Get it out in the open and get it out of the way!! good luck!!
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (22 February 2006):
 your just being paronoid , how can you connect her wanting to use a condom as a reason for her to cheat? im confused? have you maybe been cheated on in the past?. im not sure but i have heard that its easier for a women to become pregnant during her period but im not sure if thats true, maybe thats what she was worried out? i would not stress about why would she would be suddenly intrested in using condoms but in the past she didnt worry, maybe she is not ready to become pregnant yet as you did say that she said she didnt want to become pregnant, dont stress about this one buddy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): Confront her with your question - "This situation has risen before, but you never asked me to use a condom before. So why do we need to use one this time around?"
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): Calm down and then just ask her.She was in Canada; it seems fully plausible that she ran out of the pill and now doesn't want to get pregnant. It's not the same to skip a day of the pill as it is to be off it for a month.My inclination is that she's telling the truth and there's really nothing to it. But why stress? Just talk to her.
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