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writes:Hello Friends I am in love and I mean crazy love I cant sleep or eat.I am sad all the time because I like her I mean really because I thinks she is the most beautiful girl I ever saw I am a little older than her but love knows no limits. Anyway I like her but she is going out with a guy who is a jerk and tells everyone she belongs to her and he is not a nice guy. I am on the brink of disaster and losing my grip on realty and I cant handle it, I am taking sleeping pills just to sleep. Can you help me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): Ok, hon, it sounds like you have major puppy love, and you are focusing way too much of your emotions, time and attention on this little girl. She is too young to belong to anybody, and you are too young to put this little one up on a pedestal where she doesn't belong....she is just a girl, and you are just a boy, so try just being her friend, by that I mean actually speak to her and ask her about her day and her life, and see if you can't get a dialogue going so that you can relax about her....
Love is not about posession.
You sound like you are in trouble, you should not need sleeping pills to go to sleep....are these over the counter medications? Try excercising before bed instead or excercising during the day everyday, it will make you feel better, look better, and be physically tired so that your mind will relax and go to sleep.
Short of that I hope you will talk to your doctor about your troubles and difficulty sleeping, and how depressed you are feeling....kids your age are susceptible to depression and you need to ask for some help so that you can feel better, it is important that you do this soon, or it could actually worsen.
Be good.
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reader, nicola79  +, writes (10 March 2007):
 How old are you? if you are the age I can see on this page which is 13-15, dont you think you are just a bit too young to be feeling the way you do? If she is younger than you I dont dare think of her age.
You will feel like this loads and loads because you are young and have sooooo much more growing up to do. Yes I think we all have really liked people when we were your age but I think you will understand what Imean when you get older. If she is with someone else then I would just get on with your life and see what happens later on.
You need to go out with your friends and enjoy your life and you never know you may meet someone else who isnt in a relationship. I am not dissing you sweety so please dont think I am but Im a bit worried about the way you are feeling. Can you talk to your family about it? if so I would if I were you because you dont want to end up depressed flower. Enjoy you life.
I wish you all the best.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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