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writes:I have been married for nearly two years and things are not going very well with my husband. We live in separate houses which does not help matters but recently we row all the time. We have had a lot of issues in our marriage - he has children from previous relationships, he is very outgoing which because of my previous marriage makes me feel , we lost a baby and I have had a lot of issues with work and trying to survive so we spend very little time together. Recently he intimated that he wanted a divorce and now hardly ever contacts me and is generally not friendly. I am missing him very much and want to sort things out so we can be a proper couple but he just won't deal with me. Any ideas?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 October 2011):
 The least he owes you is to meet up with you and talk things through. I agree with blonde30s it does sound like he has decided that the marriage is over. Off course this is going to be horrible to accept. But he needs to talk things out with you so you can both know where each other stands. Tell him how you are feeling and hopefully he will set you straight about what he wants. You have went through a lot of emotional turmoil recently and for that I am sorry that this is on top of you as well. You need to take some time out to yourself and go out and enjoy yourself. Ask friends and family around so that you have people to talk to. I wish you all the best of luck.
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