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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I fell in love with a much younger man and we have had a relationship for 5 years (though he is not gay). he has always wanted and has a deep need for a family. he met a girl and fell in love (she has a child, not his), and has being seeing her for 6 months. now i have found out i and he does love her (or the family), however he is still in love with me. he says he has been trapped between the two of us, he wants the 'normal' open relationship with his grilfriend but wants our relationship as well (no one knows about us). i still am in love him him, and as long as he is in love with me and we have this intimate relationship i can not escape (i have tried and failed 3 times).
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): I am a female who is kind of in the same position as the girl in your situation.I have been seeing my boyfriend now for 8 months but have known him for about nine years.His best friend is a single gay guy , now i know that doesnt mean my boyfriend has ever had an intimate(sexual)relationship with him but there are a lot of things that lead me to think that they have .He says he is not gay but that hell try anything once,and within four weeks he asked if id consider using a strap-on,pretty forward for someone whos only been seeing me for a few weeks! By intimate , do you mean youve had a sexual relationship with him? and how does he justify that when he says hes not gay?
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