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writes:He and I have spent a long time together, two years this month. He decided to move out two days ago. We've stayed together longer even got a place together. Throughout our time of getting back together, he would always talk about marriage. I was so happy to hear that he was considering that with me and now he is gone. He told me that he has commitment issues and that he has been protecting me from himself so he wouldn't do things behind my back. He told me that he loved me but not in love with me...how when the last few months and even couple days before marriage was on his mind? He and I have been intimate so there hasn't been anything wrong with that. He later tells me that he fell out of love with me a year and a half ago...what???! He forced himself not to love me and now marriage comes up and he's gone. I called him the night of his departure he told me that he was going to pack and load all his things and spend one last night with me. I told him that was the stupidest thing I've ever heard...My Heart's involved why would he make it worse. I later brought up my misunderstanding for him leaving he started to sound as bad as I did crying telling me that one day he'll make it up to me if I let him. I"M CONFUSED!!!!!!! What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, PsychicDove  +, writes (19 October 2008):
 Oh, I think some other woman has come into the picture honey. And don't wait for him okay? Just take a break for a while, heal yourself and lead a better life than this. Don't spend days and nights weeping and ruining your health. Stay calm and wait for a reliable and solid person who will not behave like this. He loves you, is very attached and does not want to hurt you but seems like he has fallen for another. He was emotional and hence fickle. I see someone practical and with a tinge of rigidity and over-possessiveness arriving into your life honey. He will be reliable, keep affirming good things to pave way for good days.Use this affirmation if you want - 'With each day of my life...I radiate and receive true and ever lasting love and joy'Affirmations should be repeated in your mind whenever you feel the need to do so, as many times as you want every day. Don't let others know if you intend to practice it. Maintain strict secrecy. Just do deep and slow breathing 10 times before meditating on the affirmation.Take care okay?Good Luck and Best Wishes~PsychicDove
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