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writes: I am seeing a man of 59 i am 61, but it is always what he wants to do, he will ring me up to go out the same night, but never makes any earlier arragements, I really don't know where i stand with him or if has any feelings for me, unfortunatly i am in love with this man. but am getting fed up of his selfish ways, what do i do?thankyou Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2006): You need to decide if this guy is intentionally selfish, or if he just doesn't realise the way he behaves.If u don't say anything to him, he might just think you're happy to go along with this.Why not reject his offer one night and tell him you'll be happy to do something the following night, even if u don't want to. At least then it might put u more in control and he should realise that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2006): I think you need to find out what he feels for you. Tell him how you feel, and ask him if he feels the same way. Perhaps, when he discovers how you feel, he'll stop being so selfish and let you have a say in the relationship.
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