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writes:I have just turned 15 and I had sex for the first time about 3 weeks ago, we used a condom and were safe and we checked that it didnt tear or anything but i was so worried about being pregnant. We had sex a couple of days after my period had ended and from researching i know that you ovulate around 14 days before your period starts so its unlikely to be pregnant after however, A few hours after the sex i began to have stomach cramps, although i knew this was far too early to be having pregnancy symtoms. I have been thinking about being pregnany non-stop, i know my parents will kill me if i am, so i've been so worried. I think i have missed my period as it has not come yet, my best friend keeps telling me that i've been so worried about being pregnant that my body has began acting like it, any advice or information would be greatly appreciated it, thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to everyone who replied :} im not pregnant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): Your not pregnant more then likely you just are scared because it was your first time but you probably have cramps because your bodys not used to that kind of activity
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (4 March 2010):
 Ok, from what you have said, it sounds like you are just getting yourself into a state over this. If you are unsure, then take a test. If you were careful, and took precautions, then you should be ok, but I worry that this is a symptom of you not being emotionally ready to have sex in the first place. It may be worth thinking about cooling off on this for a while.
What I will add, and you probably will not listen to this, is that at 15 you are LEGALLY UNDERAGE in the UK. You shouldnt be having sex. This includes, any type of oral sex, fingering, handjobs, vaginal and anal sex. Until you are 16, you cannot give consent, so it is rape. Being younger, you are also at a greater risk of things like the HPV virus, which can lead to cervical cancer. So be careful. Younger girls also have problems if they get pregnant, as their bodies are not fully formed and childbirth can be incredibly dangerous for both the baby and the mother. There are many reasons why it is not a good idea for younger girls to have sex - not because us adults want to stop you having fun. These reasons could stop you getting seriously ill.
I think, the fact that you are so scared about being pregnant, and also the fact you are so concerned about your parents being angry suggests that you are not really emotionally ready for all the consequences of sex. Why do you think your parents would be so cross? Do you understand where they are coming from? If you cannot talk to your parents about sex, and the fact you are sexually active, then you are not mature enough to have a sexual relationship. If you want to behave like an adult, then you should act like one.
At 15, would you be capable of looking after a baby? Would you be prepared to give up your life for the next 18 years (longer than you have been alive) to care for a child? Do you want a career? A good job? Money?
Sex = pregnancy, even if you are very very careful, accidents can and DO happen. SO if you are not ready to have a baby, you are not ready to have sex.
Go to the Doctor, and get on some form of contraception. The pill, the patch, the implant, there are many forms. Always use a condom as well, to give you extra protection and to stop STI's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm taking a test tomorrow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): Have you considered getting a test? Your parents wouldnt have to know that your taking the test. However, should it come out that you are pregnant, your best bet is to tell your parents before they find out some other way. It will be alot easier for everyone. However, accorinding to what you have typed, if the condom didnt break and there was NO penetration without the condom, i would say it is safe to assume you are not pregnant.
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reader, 80sfashionista.  +, writes (3 March 2010):
 it doesn't sound to me like your pregnant. you should deff stop thinking about it too! seek a gyno to be on the safe sidee! get on birth control! & darling getting preggo is that lasssst thing you want right now! believeee meeeeeeeee
good luck!
xoxo, kitty
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