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writes:I am in love with a friend I know has a girlfriend and we have fooled around a few times to the point of almost going too far. I also have a boyfriend but have not been happy in the relationship for a while. Im confused because i know this guy likes me and i can't get him out of my mind but i know he loves his girlfriend. He knows how i feel about him though. So what do i do? I tried to forget but its really hard.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (14 May 2007):
 Going anywhere is going too far when you're both with people. I have to ask why you're still with your current boyfriend if you haven't been happy for a while. Is it that it's better to be with someone than alone? If so can you see how that hampers you in being with other people like the friend who you are more attracted to?
Stop the fooling around until you've broken up with your boyfriend. If he's really into you he'll break up with his girlfriend too but you may be disappointed and find out that fooling around is okay by him but that he doesn't want more. Then again by your own words you're currently unhappy so dumping your boyfriend isn't a risk at all.
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