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*haina
writes:Iam a 28 year married woman.I am going through a bad phase in life,Iam not happy with my marrige coz i found this guy who is single and very caring.When i met him first time we just clicked,i like everything about him.There were problems in my marrige but after meeting this guy i have decided to end up the relationship.My husband is very dominating thats what bothers me.First i thought it is not love but just a mere attraction but iam very serious about this relationship and want to be with this single guy.He was the one who started it,but now the problem is he is uncomfortable about the situation and want to end up this relationship.I am in big mess i dont knw how to come out of it.I dont want to live with my husband everything about him just makes me angry,we are not physical from last 9 months and as far as the single guy is concerned he will not stand for me coz of religion and my current marital status.But i am not expecting anything from this single guy ,I dont want him to accept me under some sort of pressure i want him to accept me coz of love.
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reader, shaina +, writes (9 May 2008):
shaina is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx fr the help .I am finding it very hard to leave that single guy.He is going to his home country in couple of months.I dont knw how i will be able to cope without him,iam just so use to him.The idea of sharing him with some one else just turns me off.I get angry ,frustrated and start sending him angry sms's.I feel cheated..i fell miserable,helpless,and degraded.
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reader, littlejasper  +, writes (9 May 2008):
Move on.....You are only young. Dont look back at your life in 50 years and say I wish i lived it differently, cause nobody built that time machine yet. you are only living this life once and live it happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): i say that if he does not love you no more you should just let him go. You r only 28 years old, so you have plenty of time to find anther guy. you r only one fish in the sea there r many more fishes out there. so go find one that will love you forever, and from what you wrote no guy at that age will last that long without being with someine if you get my drift.also it has benn9 mouths you said. i hate to say it but he is probly cheating on you. sorry. i hoped i helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): well im in the same situation just one thing im the other woman no hes not with hes wife or living with her, were living together but hes stll married and it really hurts me and he wants out they have no children just hes getting around to it but heres my point, it hurts to care about someone and feel as they still have ties to someone eles willing or not they do
just move out if can talk to him get hes support and tell him what your plans are what you want to do and put your words in to actions
good lucky hun
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