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writes: i am 13 years old and last nite i had sex wid my bf for only about 20 seconds widout protection i finished my period 21 days ago is there a chance i mite be pregnant? is there any pills i can take now to stop it?? plz plz plz help me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2006): hi i am 15 my girl friend wants sex but i have never used a comdom before i dont know what to do ...help thanks marc
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2006): go and talk to a nurse
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (16 July 2006):
 NICE!
Everybody on here feels the need to try to scare you into never having unprotected sex again. You seem to be fully aware that you have made a mistake and are now wanting to do something about it. You do not say which country you are in, but if you are in the UK then get yourself to the nearest Brook Advisery Centre (number in the phone book) or too your GP ASAP. You need to take the morning after pill, which can prevent impalntation of a fertilised egg before 72hrs.
Go get adult advice honey. Do it NOW!!!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (16 July 2006):
 Yes, because it only takes a literal second to get pregnant. Your boyfriend doesn't even have to be inside you; if he rubs the tip of his penis at the entrance of your vagina, even THAT could be enough to get you pregnant.
So the answer is DO NOT have unprotected sex. When things are getting hot and heavy, it's still OK to say "We need to stop". No matter what your boyfriend tries to tell you, he's not going to turn purple or explode if he doesn't ejaculate. If he's that desperate, he can take care of it himself.
Go to the chemist and get a pregnancy test. Use it the day after your period is due. If you're pregnant, I think it's worth considering an abortion, as at 13 your body is still developing and a pregnancy can harm your own growth.
If you're going to be doing adult activities like sex, you have to be willing to make adult decisions, like having and using condoms, and deciding what happens if you do get pregnant. So if you are, ring up your local sexual health clinic, or women's clinic and talk to the nurses there, who'll tell you what your options are.
They may also be able to supply you with a reliable contraceptive.
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reader, tux  +, writes (16 July 2006):
 exactly what Dr Pysch said... Always remember how worried you are and not to repeat this mistake unless you want to have a baby(hopefully I do hope that is not the case). you are still young and have plenty of time for other things before you get hooked in a relationship with a baby.
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reader, bonym +, writes (15 July 2006):
 Listen carefully, at 13 you have absolutely no business having any kind of sex as you are totally underage. Of course there is a chance you may be pregnant, if you had sex with NO protection then its even more possible for you to get pregant. You are a child, be a child and dont be doing adult stuff. Always ALWAYS protect yourself. xXx
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (15 July 2006):
 1. Any sexual penetration can lead to pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Boys lose sperm before they actually ejaculate, especially when they are very excited.
2. You can take the morning after pill up to 72 hours after sexual intercourse. It is available from a doctor, A&E, a family planning clinic or some chemists. After 72 hours you can have a coil fitted (definitely not recommended at your age!) that sometimes prevents pregnancy if fitted within 5 days.
3. You are worried now...remember how worried you are...remember it enough not to have unprotected sex again in the future no matter how carried away you get. There are lots of contraception options and if your boyfriend isnt prepared to wear a condom then he doesnt respect you and you should not be having sex with him. I should say at 13 you are way too young to be having sex anyway but you will probably just go and do it anyway so be careful! Having a baby as a teenager, or getting a nasty disease is just a horrible situation to get into.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (15 July 2006):
1. Any sexual penetration can lead to pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Boys lose sperm before they actually ejaculate, especially when they are very excited.
2. You can take the morning after pill up to 72 hours after sexual intercourse. It is available from a doctor, A&E, a family planning clinic or some chemists. After 72 hours you can have a coil fitted (definitely not recommended at your age!) that sometimes prevents pregnancy if fitted within 5 days.
3. You are worried now...remember how worried you are...remember it enough not to have unprotected sex again in the future no matter how carried away you get. There are lots of contraception options and if your boyfriend isnt prepared to wear a condom then he doesnt respect you and you should not be having sex with him. I should say at 13 you are way too young to be having sex anyway but you will probably just go and do it anyway so be careful! Having a baby as a teenager, or getting a nasty disease is just a horrible situation to get into.
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