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*essedupfemale
writes:I am having a really hard time getting over a break-up, I have taken it personally. My ex boyfriend of 2 years told me I was the one, we planned kids, house and marriage, we had the soul mate connection, he opened up to me and I did the same, we were so happy, his family love me and even strangers commented on what a great couple we seemed together. Last year we went through a hard patch (just friction no cheating or anything major, just arguments over the PC!), and ended up breaking up (he broke up with me, but I fought so hard to save us, he walked away though). If he loved me as much as he had said, then why didnt he stay with me? Why aren't we still together? I told him I would love him forever and I meant it. I am gutted that he said all those things and then ended things with me. How can I trust again?How can I come to terms with this?
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reader, ladybirdtwo +, writes (20 January 2009):
It's bad at the time and you think that the hurt will never end but in time you will see him for what he is, just keep going and the days will get better for you. Lots of us have been on the same spot, you have to tell yourself that this will get better and if you want to cry about it cry and if you need to talk, talk to your friends that care about you. They will not mind if you say the same thing over and over, it is helping you. Think positive! Look forward and think that you will be happy soon. It's hard girl but it will make you stronger in the long run. Take care
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reader, Princesswannabe +, writes (19 January 2009):
Well i am in exactly the same situation my ex also broke up with me in a similar way to your ex.
All i can say hun is cry, get your friends round, keep yourself busy, get a hobby, if you drive do what i do and go for long drives pull over somewhere and just have some you time in a place where no one knows you.
It really is hard i know
My ex is in the Army and has not long got back from a tour i waited for him and wrote to him every single day then a few weeks after he got back everything started to go wrong
You will get over him it will just take time thats all.
If you ever wanna talk just message me
x
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