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36-40,
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writes:hi, i dated this guy for 3 yrs bt we broke up in feb 2007. it wasnt messy so we've been frenz since. we are both with other people but they dont know we still talk. i dont want my b/f to feel threatened by him yet i dont want him findig out from someone else. my ex and i hv tried to stay away from each other but we'v grown so attached we keep finding our way back. he knows me beta than most people and tho we agree we cant be more than frenz (our relationship was a disaster) we dont know if other people will understand. how do we come out in the open without raising too much suspicion.
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reader, No_Nonsense  +, writes (17 February 2009):
 Hi thereIt sounds like you and your ex have a really strong friendship! Why should you feel you have to let others understand it? People will always have their own thoughts and opinions on things, so the best advice is to just be who you are and do what feels right to you! If the friendship works and you guys know there's nothing more than friendship, then it doesn't matter what others think. And as for your boyfriend, you can always tell him that it's friendship, nothing else, should you worry about him being jealous. But that said, i don't think relationships should ever cut you away from friendships - they're important! Just explain to your boyfriend what the situation is so that everything's out in the open and he doesn't have a need to feel insecure or jealous.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): hey girl, i think u should keep being friends with ur ex, there is nothing wrong with that, just keep a lil bit distance, not 2 make him think that u r interested in getting back together. if u trust and care about ur new bf let him know about ur ex.. i hope my point of view will help good lucky.!
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