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female
age
36-40,
*adAsh6705
writes:Hi everyone!I am frustrated and confused about where my relationship of just over a year is going...The guy I am with is very sweet and good to me besides occasional moodiness which I think is normal for everyone, so generally we get along well and care about each other a lot. About a month ago he was fired from his job and this month he had to move back with his mom because he can't afford to live with me and our roommates (2 of his friends) anymore. Pretty much during the entire relationship I have been unsure that I really WANT a relationship in the first place. I recently moved here from another state and I still barely know many people. I feel like one of the reasons I got into the relationship is because I was lonely and I didn't know anyone here so I liked having someone to spend time with, but at the same time I do actually like and care about him. I still always think about how different things would be if I was single because I am in college here and have the opportunity to meet so many different intelligent, motivated men compared to my boyfriend who is currently unemployed and does not go to school or have any plan for his future whatsoever. I guess I just feel like I may have settled for someone who doesn't exactly fit the type of person I imagine myself being with. I know he cares about me a lot, but is it wrong for me to continue in a relationship with him if I am unsure it is what I want? Should I give him time to get back on his feet before I label him a 'loser'?
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