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writes:I've recently got a boyfriend who I like a lot, except I'm constantly worried he'll break up with me even though there isn't any real indication that he will. Is this normal? What are things I should do to prevent this? and will playing kind of hard to get help me (like being vague/distant/aloof on some occasions), or am I completely off on that one? Reply to this Question
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reader, Terryharris +, writes (13 October 2011):
U are welcome i hope that i was some help to u
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reader, Terryharris +, writes (8 October 2011):
If u love him with all of your heart that is all it matters . But if u are scare that he is going to break up with u then he might not be the right guy for u
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2011): Don't act any differently toward him. Distancing yourself from him won't make situations any better. Be yourself around him. If this is really bothering you, talk to him about it. Communication is key in a relationship. It seems you are really in love, and I wish you the best.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (8 October 2011):
 There is an interesting psychology which says the thing that you focuses on you tend to get. It would be wise to only think about the positives but even then there are no guarantees in life. If you can't accept the ups and downs in life you can't open your heart to love. Power dynamics go both ways so you have just as much chance of breaking up with him. When you constantly worry of losing your place, fixate on him, then you take away value and energy from him, and you put yourself in a lower and powerless position. What you should do is develop the confidence that no one can shake. If anyone breaks up with you, it's their loss and you free up yourself to find a better match.
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