A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am confused I love and hate my ex boyfriend. I know i can never date him again cuz he was a jerk and would use me but that was at the end in the begining he was realy sweet and kind, thats why i love him but now were over and hes being a real big jerk and i hate him. My problem is i dont want to hate or love him again, i have never felt this way before, i was wondering if any one has tips so i wont fall back for him and any tips so i can keep my cool and not get upset any advice will help though, Thanks for your time.
View related questions:
my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for all your ansewrs they realy helped.
A
female
reader, ffogalilly +, writes (14 December 2009):
That is hard to do, I am going through the same thing. I was involved with someone over the summer, it began in June and lasted until October when I finally said it was over. He would get drunk and say stuff to me that would really confuse me, we actually took a break from one another but it started up again two weeks later, and this is when he said that he loved me twice, he wasn't trying to lure me into the bed because we made that decision earlier.
You're going to feel sad for awhile, and walk around like a zombie, just stay out of his way and don't speak to him for awhile. That is what I'm doing, it hurts to see him because I'm always worried about him, but I have to let him go, because I know he doesn't like me.
Keep your distance from this guy, because I had the love and hate thing too, I loved the way he would fire me up and challenge me, that was one part I enjoyed being with him.
We're both going to get through it, I promise=)
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): Avoid him for a good amount of time. Take time apart from him. Its the best thing to do. Don't start contacting him again until you are emotionally completely done and over with him.
...............................
|
