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I am cheating but instead of making me happy, it makes me cry

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Question - (9 December 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *aria-wolf1 writes:

whenever my boyfriend and I have sex i never come unless he goes down on me, but lately Ive been crying after sex, Im also seeing some1 else and after sleeping with him I also started crying and I didnt even come, I laugh and cry alot its wiered and it freaks them out, why is that and what should I do?

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (10 December 2009):

Oh my God. You came here for sympathy, not for advice. Nobody sympathizes with a cheater, get a grip. No one is wrong, it is what it is. You cheat on your boyfriend and you whine and cry about it. Fix the problem: either quit cheating or quit having sex and you won't cry like a baby anymore.

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A female reader, maria-wolf1 United States +, writes (10 December 2009):

maria-wolf1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

No all of you got it wrong... so now I'm bad because 1 person cant make me happy? I like them both a lot and I cant even imagine been with 1 and not the other. the 1 is everything the other isnt and the other way around, together they make the perfect man, that is why I cant end it with ny of them, its more than just me cheating it goes much deeper than that... and besides how do I know they not doing the same? "its a dog eat dog world out there"... so just so you know none of this advice was helpful at all, maybe all of you should recheck yourselfs before you judge me! not 1 of you'll know me and what Ive been though, I'll screw you before you screw me, that's how I look at it!!! OH and love buster: it dont get no better than me!!!!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (9 December 2009):

I think you should stop cheating and look at your life. Sounds like you've got a lot going on, and maybe for now it's better if you focus on yourself without the complications of guys around you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009):

How would you feel if your boyfriend was getting intimate with another girl?

Cheating is an awful thing, end it with your current boyfriend because if you care even a little bit for him you should want to protect him from being so hurt by your actions.

Maybe you are crying beacause you know deep down that your actions are wrong? It could be guilt?

Perhaps give yourself a little break from relationships. If you cant commit just be single and you can be independent and sleep with people without hurting anyone else. You'd be free to do as you wish.

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (9 December 2009):

Maybe you should quit cheating and get a psych evaulation.

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