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*arahj1980
writes:i'm 28yrs old, a full time time mum to my gal aged 5. we live above a shop that opened a month ago. the thing is i've fallen for a guy who works there, when i see him i say hello etc but then i clam up as i'm really shy. i cant stop thinking about him, and i just dont know what to do about it. i dont even knw his name, whether he's married etc, all i knw its driving me crazy, and i could be working there myself soon. Pls help!!!!
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reader, sarahj1980 +, writes (14 October 2008):
sarahj1980 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionn i cant help me feelings, i find meself everyday that me feelings r stronger for him, so i'm still confused n its driving me crazy!!!!
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reader, sarahj1980 +, writes (14 October 2008):
sarahj1980 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi, i sent him a note last week asking if he wanted to meet up sumtime for a drink or something, put dwn me mobile number n got me gal to give it to him! The next day when i went in he came up n said he was very flattered but he was married, n maybe if circumstances were different, n that he was sowi he was married. i said about friends n he agreed but i dont knw if he was just saying that so he didnt hurt me.i also knw he has also got a gal around the same age as mine, when i go in i always talk to him about general things, it was just asking him out, matters of the heart so to speak that i'm shy with as i aint got much confidence. I'm pleased to say that after i gave him the note he still talks to me, i jist feel that theres sumthing there between us, a connection or sumthing, its hard to explain. ive also noticed that he doesnt talk to everyone that goes into the shop so i dont knw whether its just that he likes me, or that he's the way he is with me cos i live above n go in a bit. i txted a physic n explained my situation with this guy, n the reply that i got was that he's very attracted to me, that in time it could go to more than friendship but i would have to take a bkseat to his wife, that i need to be patient with him, that he would make a move when i'm least expecting it, that he's neither unhappy or happy in his marriage n theres no nd for me to try n impress because he's already impressed with me. do i believe this? my little gal also likes him n talks to him all the time, n he's always talking to her which is nice. i dont even have to talk to him sometimes, just give him eye contact n i still feel a strong connection, or could i just be reading all the signals wrong, n reading into something that just isnt there!!! i'm still confused!!! i still dont knw his name but i'm working on it, n i have thought of all things to ask him like invite a few m8s round then ask him n his wife, or suggest about his little gal playing with mine sumtime but then i think that maybe thats all just a bit too much, n i should just be patient, n i'm hoping that i havent ruined me chances of working there x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): Try talking more to himAsk him questions like are you singleThen try and get a feel for if he is comfortable with you having a daughterMaybe take your daughter with and use her to communicate to himTalk about her or get her in the conversations to make things a little less weird
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