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writes: i've been asked out loads of times before in the past but i've never been able to bring myself to say yes because i am always worried that the relationship will fail horibly. and because im worried i've never rele had the courage to ask anyone out, so if anyone could tell me how a relationship i supposed to work and how i can overcome this matter, it would rele help, thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (18 December 2006):
 Part of growing up is the realization that ALL relationships, no matter if there is sex involved or not, come with risk, and come with pain. Part of being an adult is to accept those risks, and take the chance anyways.
You obviously have some interest in having a relationship...what is important to you in a relationship? What do you think you would get out of a relationship? Now imagine a life where you are stuck in a world where you do not get to have any of that.
I give seminars for adult male virgins that are in their 20s, 30s, and 40s because they never grew up, and faced that fear. They are suicidal, lonely and miserable...not a place to end up.
-Frank B Kermit
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