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anonymous
writes:i am in law school and recovering from a bad relationship with a bad girl. there is a pattern with me and bad girls: they are always dark, gorgeous, scandalous, crazy, deceptive, addicted, dirty sex, you name it. i cannot help it. i have tried to date nice girls, but they just don't turn me on. i cannot make myself attracted to them. i have tried so hard, but i keep hurting them and leaving them for bad girls. so here, i find myself always pining over these terrible women, one after the other. it is like an addiction that i cannot break. it has become detrimental to every facet of my life. i struggle w/ bipolar disorder and have been treated w/ lithium for years. i think there is a correlation b/t the disorder and my choices regarding women. i feel helpless and cannot break the cycle. psychiatrists think i will grow out of it, but i know i won't. i have always been this way. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, prettypenny +, writes (1 April 2012):
 There is a syndrome. I used to be drawn to using, manipulative, sex-crazed men and it finally clicked for me when I recognized it was only sexual and I was ready for real love. It all depends on what you really want. If you just want someone to get your rocks off with than bad girls are perfect, but if you were ready for an honest, loving, trusting and safe relationship then I think your tastes would change.
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reader, BeautifulWorld +, writes (1 April 2012):
Accept the fact that this is the type of females that you are into .... whats wrong with bad girls?? they need love too Lol
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