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writes:I am currently a straight female very attracted to my bisexual male friend. Although I really feel bad awhile back when he was testing the waters by replying awhile back that I only go for straight people. I had not realized he has been attracted to me for awhile now seems how I have been friends with for 16 yrs. The thing was I knew he was gay for a time or two but recently discovered hes been really bisexual. I had to deal with the shock, and also realized he has been flirting with me. He also said that i was important to him that i was his muse through everything. He also called me while he was upset which he never did before and I was there for him. At the end of that conversation he said "I Love You." I noticed hes been trying to impress me by saying things I know he doesn't do as much as he makes himself out to be. Yeah your thoughts please?
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reader, \m/J.D\m/  +, writes (5 November 2008):
 Im ina very similar situation love, cept im a bi sexual female with my first bi guy, at first we thought we should just stay as best mates but we started sleeping together and spendin more time together and decided ona monogamous relationship. I have no issues with the fact hes bi, it doesnt even enter the equation tbh, as with any relationship insecurities can be there where exs are concerned but try to overcome any fears you may have, if your worried because you assumed he was gay, dont! Hes attracted t you as an individual person, not because of your sex. Anyway hun, the point i was trying t make is go for it :) yea hes bi, but that dont mean hes gonna run off with a man. Good luck and all the best! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): So, I'm a bisexual female and I've dated 2 bisexual males. First off, as long as you are supportive of them, they will be faithful to you and will be more like your best friend. The cool part of bi guys is that they can find other bi guys that are both into men and women. You can enjoy the benefit of being with two guys at once, him and his male playmate, while you are with him. Bi guys are super sexy, like you're best friend, and they can be honest as long as you are okay with them being themselves. In my opinion it's one of the best relationships ever, because you could always sleep with other guys if you wanted too, which is why some women cheat, and it's also super sexy to watch beautiful men being intimate with each other.That being said, just make sure you use protection, like condoms for any type of penetration, oral is safer, but dental dams should be considered to be on the safe side, unless you know the other person reasonably well, and if you try not to swallow or ingest semen, you're pretty much on the safer side of things. So as with any other relationship, being open, and honest is the best thing. Consider him to be like your best friend, and just be honest to yourself and him- It's all people really want in a relationship, plus since the inception of time people have experienced homoerotic relationships, both men and women....It wasn't until the current Christian era that such things have become taboo. However, as you may note most people continue to engage in such things. Just remember to use protection, and also make sure he gets a full HIV-STD test, and use condoms until significant trust is in place. Know the risks of oral sex, because you can still contract HIV from pre-cum and semen. Good luck, be safe, and have fun. If anything you can have one those Samantha Sex In The City Journal entries for whatever happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): I have a very similar case. I am a straight woman also attracted to a bisexual male friend. He hangs out with me most of the time. People sometimes think we are an item since we do a lot of things together. Recently we had a talk about our friendship. He told me he loved me as a friend but was not attracted to me in a sexual way. I was devastated as all the signs were there for a good relationship. We still are good friends. Still hang out alot. But it kills me inside to know I can not really have him sexually. He also says he is dealing with his sexuality.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 April 2008):
He likes you, you like him.
There is no problem here.
Go out for a few drinks and see what happens!
It sounds like you two could be amazing. Congratulations on finding him!
Good Luck!! xx
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