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writes:Help...... Im getting crazy now and nearly to the depression. I dont know what to do. My Husband is older than me 29 years. He is 64 and i am 37. He has 1 son and i have 2 also both from the first relationship. same situation as he is. The problem is im getting crazy now hoping for my last chance to have a baby but my husband doesnt want it anymore. I love him and i dont wanna cheat him jut because of this. I understand the fact that he dont want it anymore because of his age but what about me? I love to have a baby with him, yes he is older than me thats the reason i wanted to have a baby with him, sooner or later he will left me then what about me? he will left me if i dont have anymore chance? that i get old already to have a baby? im really getting crazy now thinking about this. im getting old and i dont wanna be late. We speak about it and he really dont wanna baby anymore and thats driving me crazy. please help me, anybody, please convince me that i am wrong to my wish that my husband is right please i need to be on the right truck again before i lose this relationship of mine. Thank you very, very much to all of you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): My mother gave birth to me at 39; my father was nearly 70. I have no memory of him because he died when I was 8 months old. I obviously don't regret my existence, but I feel it was not fair that my parents chose to have another child despite my father's age. It's especially hard because my siblings (who have a different biological father)have memories of my dad and I don't. I'm actually the same age you are so I totally understand your desire for another child, but please don't have a baby just because you want one. This child will have to live with the consequences of your decision, the biggest being that your husband may actually resent him or her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009): Hi its me again, i did not say i dont respect my husband wishes not to have a child anymore. That is why im asking help to convince me that i am wrong to my wish. im already 37 i also know that this is gonna be hard for me to raise another baby again cos i have already 2 from the past. being realistic, i just thought sooner or later but hopefully not very soon, my husband will left me alone. i have no plan to find another man in my life i was thinking if we have a baby then my husband is not anywhere he is always with me. but i also understand the situation of my husband the reason why he dont want it anymore is because of his age. when we got married we never speak about having or not having a child. But for now at this very moment i have a feeling that i really wanted a baby. hopefully this feeling will change. thank you very much to all of your opinion it was by the way very helpfull Gina.
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