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writes: Hi, I have been dating this girl for about a month, not too long I know, but we have known each other for about 6 years, we are in love. (keeping it short) I'm 19 and so is she, she has never had sex and will not until marriage which I highly respect. Almost every time we are alone I end up pleasuring her (just with my hand), and I feel like I should be getting something in return. Is this a fair judgment saying I'm getting the shit end or is it more of a wait til' she is ready? I don't feel like getting played is what it comes down to, I wouldn't even care if she never did for me as long as I knew she wasn't pplaying me for a fool. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2006): Well she maybe aprhenive, about her performance she sounds quite inosent and not like an experienced girl just give her time, and of course your not being played for a fool what do you think? Do you love
You obvoislly do you made the decision to respect her wishes and that is love so dont spoil it, You deserve plesure too but it will happen at the right time,
Try dissussing it at the right time right place in a sexy, playful mannor with her you are being romantic with what your doing and thats lovely dont be demanding over her thats being controlling, Dont be like some men out there who want to control there girlfriends to gain power,She loves you thats whats important you can get plesure from anyone but that special connection is rare and your lucky to have it, Take care of yourself and your Girlfriend and
Good Luck Ditzy-Blonde :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006): It is a gamble, but so it would be even if she put out (now) like a military camp follower. There are no guarantees as to how one's spouse will perform throughout marriage. If you love her enough it shouldn't matter, but if it bothers you so much that you need advice, I might just think twice if I were you.
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