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female
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41-50,
*z_lani1
writes:My fiancee and I are so in love but it seems like i'm always gotta tell him what to do, for an example: change his son's diaper, fix him breakfast, take him a shower, all that stuff and then he even asks what do he do to get our son to sit down and eat or to get away from the computer..etc. Now my fiance is 13 years older than I am..(I'm 26 and he's 39)..Is it because he is gettin old or is it because he jus dont want to..I mean, he can do some stuff around the house, like, bring home a check and thats about it. But either than that, he dont even want to walk down the street to get soome cold drinks for the house..Oh..but wait a minute!!!!!!!!! When he wants to go and run the streets to look for some weed to smoke, he is quick to run a marathon to go find it..Oh Lord..What am I going to do? Can anyone help me? I am doing school online because I cant afford a babysitter, I cook and clean around the house because all he ever wants to do is lay around and sleep on top of crumbs and stuff, ask if he could help me by doing the laundry while I cook, nooooooooooooo, he lags and lags and lags about everything, even taking out the trash- I have to ask him to take it out, and when I do ask him to-he said he'll take it but doesn't take it til 2 days later..he plays too much, he's lazy and I am in a city where I don't know anyone but him. I moved because I had created a little family with him and figured its a new start, you know, my mother being passed away, I had to take over payments that she had left behind, and had a brother and cousin to look after and all of that was just swarming in my life that i couldn't take anymore-so I sold my mothers house and left with my little family to start fresh where He is from. I'm going to hang in there till the wheels fall off but I don't know how long I am going to steer this wheel..I just need something. Help, if anyone can..
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