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writes: My husband is not interested in sex, it can be 6 month gaps. I know there is no one ealse, this has been going on for 4 years, since I began to gain weight. What should I do?
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reader, angel +, writes (9 April 2005):
Try and talk to your husband and find out why he is not interested in sex. Sometimes there can be underlying issues such as work.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (9 April 2005):
I think perhaps you should have a word with him and find out what he is feeling. Has he said that he isn't interested due to your weight gain? This may not be why. He could have things on his mind, he could be depressed, he could be suffering from stress at work and tiredness. There could be numerous reasons why he isn't interested and not necessarily because of you.You need to talk to him and find out. I am assuming you would like to make love more? It has been going on for a long time though. Are you happy with your weight gain? Do you feel confident in yourself?I think the most important thing for you both to do is sit down and talk and work through a compromise or a means of making each other feel better together.I hope this helps.
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