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writes: hi i have just got married and my husbands says he doesn't love me anymore, i believe that it isn't true but i can't be sure please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): Hi,I'm facing the same problem as you right now. We are in love over for 10 yrs and got married for 7 yrs. We have a son less than 2 yrs old. It is a thunder shocked to me when he says he has an affair and he does not love me any more. He does not know how to breach the crack in our relationship. He is afraid to see me. I'm in a total lost. I do not know what to do. Do I have to let him go? Anyone out there can advise me what to do? Julie, I can understand how you feel. It is painful. Be yourself, your husband may not mean it. He may not be ready to have a family yet. Give him time and talk to him more. Open for communication is the key to win him back. I and my hubsand made mistakes for not sharing and communicate with eachother. Now, he is no longer want to open up to me anymore. Sad and pain come into our life.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 January 2008):
 He is just acting childish like a small boy . He was pique by something you did and he just said it out to hurt you.He has deficit attention disorder.He needs your close attentions and love.If he did not love you enough , he would not have married you.
You can ask him directly why he does not love you anymore? Ask him where you did wrong?
Wait a few days and I think he should return to normal. If he still comes back , then it is not a big issue. When he cools down , things will be back in perspective.
If he says he does not love you anymore and meant it, he would have pack his things and left the house immediately.
Sometimes what you see or hear is not what you get.Saying is one thing and doing is another.
They may say but they will not do what they said. It is an empty threat sometimes.
Just smile at him and pretend nothing happens when you are with him. It is difficult for him to be angry when you smile at him..LOL!
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (13 January 2008):
 Hi there.
Sorry about what you are going through.
Why would your husband say something like this. Was it said in a heated argument?
If so, then i would say that sometimes people say things in the heat of the moment, that they don't really mean. BUT, maybe it really is true?
Only way to find out, is to sit him down, and discuss this with him. Try not to fight, and get the truth from him.
If indeed he didn't mean it, then work hard at your relationship, and also make it clear to your husband how comments like these make you feel.
If it is true, and he doesn't love you, you have to get out of this relationship ASAP. Move on, and find your Prince Charming that you deserve.
Good luck.
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reader, hello1  +, writes (13 January 2008):
 Is this true? you just got married and he says that? why would he marry you in the first place. How are we suppose to know?
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