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Husband is always cheating, should I start a relationship with my brother-in-law?

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Question - (2 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2009)
A female Fiji age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am married and recently have fallen in love with my husbands younger brother. he is also attracted towards me coz every chance he gets he stays near me, holds my hand but we don't have the courage to tell each other directly wat we feel. my husband and I are not in good relationship as my husband is always cheating on me although he gets caught everytime. wat shud i do? shud i continue a relationship with my brother-in-law?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009):

Personally,i think you should carry on this relationship.you might have a lot in common!you never know.take your time to get to know him,then when the time is right express your feelings about him to him.if he feels the same way carry the relationship on.eventually you can tell your husband that your with him,and if he gets angry just say"well it's alright when you cheat on me!"just don't worry about him!!!

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2009):

pepper27 agony auntHi Hunny

I understand your pain with your husband cheating all the time sweetheart, It would be not the right thing to start a relationship with his brother though at this moment at all I feel..

Yes you are receiving attention and its nice when you are feeling so low..I would if I were in your situation sort out my marriage and make a decision there as this really can not continue its only going to get worse for you...You must be so unhappy hunny I no from my end its easy to say no don't start anything with your brother in law as I'm not going through what you are but I've always thought sort one problem out at a time therefore not causing more heartbreak and issues..Do you want to remain in this marriage??? If you really want to start all over and that would be the choice Id be making sort all this out before you go into anything else...WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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