Husband doesn't do it for me anymore

A female age 41-50, *upertwirp writes:

We have been married for 3 years and dating for six and recently had a baby (8mts). I am finding that he starts to irrate me more every day. He is very controlling and likes to shout and make you feel worthless and like you are wrong. I don't tell him everything because he likes to threaten if you don't do things his way. Recently I have been standing up for myself giving a don't care attitude and calling him names and shout when he does it. I hate this !! I don't like hurting people i know it leaves damage no matter what anyone says and its unnessary. He can't handle the fact that i stand up for myself. he has his own business that doesn't do very well and i pay everything and then he complains when i have to work late and weekends. when the business does good he gets a big lumpsum which we use to pay of debt we paid for our wedding like that and he likes to tell me that. he is overweight doesn't look after himself and keeps promising he will - he doesn't listen when i tell him what to do in sex so its pretty much just for his benefit. He constantly needs attention so bad that i can't read and i am not allowed to go to the shops. i feel i lost myself and now that i want me back its a problem

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