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writes:Hi, I'm just wondering... how would you respond to someone who tells you that they have a crush on you if you wasnt attracted to them. What would you say? in the nicest way. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): I had a wild infatuation and crush on a woman who was 13 years younger than me. I confessed, she seemed to take it well, although she had no idea I was into her. She said "I wasn't thinking of you like that. Later, I found she told all her frinds that I was a cre"epy old man, and when I was in her circles, I was the C.O.M. Very hurtful. Don't do that.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (10 August 2010):
 "Oh that is so flattering. I wish I could tell you different, but I see you as a friend only. You are so brave for telling!" I'd keep it short and sweet and not go on and on about how you wish it was different. Don't make promises you can't keep and remember that it's hard to put one's feelings out there and be rejected. Be gentle, be kind but be firm.
Good luck.
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