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writes:How might a woman know for sure if her husband is gay? And, if so, how does she get him to admit it?Anybody know the "tell-tell" signs?And, I love him, but honestly believe he is gay.. maybe he hasn't come to terms with it himself yet. HELP? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2011): I am trying to work our marriage out... just seems there is a missing piece to the puzzle... we have a lot of issues to work through, which I am very willing - very hurtful, painful issues. Motivation is truth. I am his number 1 ... I am open an honest about things I would never tell anyone - I believe that is how spouses should be. There are things hidden on his side... I want to help... I whould stay with him - married if that is how he wanted it.. I honestly would be okay with it, just need truth.
Thanks for your reply.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 August 2011):
 what will happen if he is gay? will you divorce? or will you continue to live together and make a life together? Perhaps he is bisexual?
do you want out of the marriage?
what's your motivation in forcing him to address an issue he is not ready to address?
many people think my bf is gay because he's very metrosexual and comfortable with his feminine side... he waxes.. and he's very precise about his grooming etc... he is not gay but he's comfortable about homosexuality and bisexualty...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2011): I would back him 100% if it is true. Just looking for the truth. Thank you everyone, for your feedback. I appreciate it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2011): I have talked to him... at first he acted offended... later down the road, he said he might 'consider' that maybe he is and has not come to terms with it... considering the posibility that I may be right... is that a sign?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2011): I always thought my father has some homosexual inclinations and might be bisexual. I looked at the History of his browser and most of it was gay porn, I think some men are just curious, and you have to understand society puts a lot of pressure in men to be THE HUNTER so he could be having a ahrd time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2011): I suspected my brother was gay when I found out he was using my beauty products and make-up. I also noticed 90% of his friends were female and he was uncomfortable in male company. He had gay porn films too. It was more visible physical stuff that I noticed. He was outed a few years ago and a lot of members of my family find it hard to deal with even to this day. My parents just ignore it, like it's not real and keep asking him when he will be getting married.
If your husband is gay, you won't know for sure until the day he tells you.
Good luck.
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