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writes:Ok so I really, really, REALLY like this girl I work with! We get on really well with each other and shes has come to me on occasions for reassurance. Tomorrow I want to finally tell her how I feel about her. I plan on asking to talk to her after work and then telling her my feelings for her and seeing if she would be interested in being in a relationship with me. Im not sure how this is going to go down as I dont know if she just see's me as a friend and also there is a 5 year age gap...me being the younger one (18). If she rejects me(probably will) I would still want to stay friends...but we also have to work with each other so it may be awkward! The main about this is that I let her know how I feel...how do I go about telling her?!?!?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): if you never dated and th erelationship now is not much past being friendly co-workers I would not get romantic at this point. I would simply make a date if possible. If she accepts then you know you may have a chance at something. Anything deeper may scare her off.
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reader, SinVA  +, writes (9 November 2008):
Play it cool, don't immediatley throw yourself out there. Hang out with her after work and start slow. Tell her she looks very nice, beautiful when you first meet, setting the tone, then admit that you have fallen for her. Don't pour out your heart to her, but let her know that you have started to get feelings for her beyond your friendshipd.
Don't bring up the issue of a relationship because that isn't somthing that you need to discuss then and there, just let her know you are attracted to her and see if she wants to go out on a date with you or hang out outside of work. If you try and push the relationship idea she might turn you down more so than asking her out on a date or two. Hope that helps
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