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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): The direct way is when she comes up to you and tells you she likes you. Other than that more subtle signs include wanting to touch you all the time, blowing kisses at you, looking at you all the time as if you were a piece of fruit that she wanted to eat. Getting quiet everytime your around, getting noisy and loud everytime your around. Talking about you to friends and then pointing at you and giggling. (scratch the last one, that could mean she thinks you look funny and is a nasty peice of work)
Anyway I don't know, I've never met the girl. How about you tell us what she's doing and then we'll tell you what we think.
mmmm... You could try taking the direct route yourself and asking her if she likes you.
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reader, Secrethelp  +, writes (13 June 2008):
The best way to tell if a girl likes you is to ask her to her face in a gentle manner. If she doesn't like you the signals will be right in front of you- If she is avoiding you, If she doesn't like to be seen with you.
If you are wondering how to ask her, i suggest taking her out for a couple of dates. Take her to the cinema and then bowling. On your third date take her to a resturant and ask her there and then. If you like her too just say "Look i really need to tell you something...I like you a lot, i mean- i don't want to pressurise you or anything because if you don't feel the same way then i don't want to ruin our friendship. i just wondered if you like me back?
Then it can either go two ways but whichever way she won't feel under pressure and you won't lose your friendship if she feels differently.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): There is no common-knowlege technique to tell whether or not a woman likes you. However; you have the inherent ability to tell when someone finds you interesting. It's almost obvious, but in the presence of a woman, a man loses confidence in his ability to see the obvious.
You, and only you, know how she looks at you, how she talks with you, and how she holds herself in your presence, and subconsciously you really do know. Eliminate the fear of being wrong and you will find that most of the time, you are right.
By the way, your friends can't tell you the answer to that question. They will tell you what they know based on their experience, but their experience is completely different for them. They've been conditioned by a different environment in their past.
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 It depends on the girl. Everyone gives off different signals, and they can mean different things.
Can you give us any details or is this just a general question?
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