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30-35,
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writes:How do you tell a guy you like them? There's this guy, he's flirty with me, we get on really well, he thinks I'm beautiful, etc etc.We've been speaking for about two half half months (gosh, time flies). We went to the cinema together, he said he had a great time and we should do it again.but the next day when we spoke online ..he was different, like he was trying to back off. (still friendly and talkative though, but i had to speak to him first)It was like that for about 4 days, then he went back to being flirty and acting like he likes me again and now out of the blue, he's gone back to how he was.Its crazy. :(I cant take not knowing where I stand any more, I've asked him to hang out since and all he ever says is 'yeh wud be cool' but always moves the converstation away from arranging it. I don't want to seem pushy but I need to know.How do I say it? I'm terrible with words, how could I start it off? and should I do it on text or online. because I never see him around.
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reader, steffy-boo x  +, writes (4 March 2009):
 hey there well i had this sort of situation once befor with a guy consantaly flirty then backing away in a sence, and i to found it fustrating not knowing where i stand
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what i did was on line i said look(not horribley) told him how i feel about him but i enjoy seeing him and thing all the possitive things you know and all that
i dont think u are being pushy u mearly just feeling left in the dark thats all nothing rong with wanting to know where you atand not one bit
if u can not tell him on line why not if its possible for you to send a message over email when he isnt on line or something and if u dont send him and email them yea send a text message after all if he not around much then i think u will be fine just talk to your friends and they will understand and even give you addvice them self nothing better than friends of course family but on thiese sort of thing freinds are most handy
love steffy-boo
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