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anonymous
writes: I'm rather shy and I want to meet a decent guy. Any tips coz I have had a lot of bad experiences.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (14 April 2006):
 Hi,
Poor you. Been quite unlucky in the lucky dip of love? There is no certain way to meet a decent guy. If there is or you find one let me know! You don't go to find decent guys, decent guys find you! You sound like a lovely person who has just been unlucky. There is the PERFECT guy out there for you, just be patient and never give up on love.
There are not many decent guys in the world, but I'm sure one will find it's way to you.
Good Luck and all The Best,
Phoebe
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reader, bridget +, writes (12 April 2006):
 Hey there anon..
Im sorry to hear that you have had bad experiences in the past but you can use these now to find someone else..
Thats what I did and it turned out brill! Obviously these things take time but in the end they work out...
Its not all bad having past experiences, at the time then yeah, they are god awful but in the long run once you are over the specific problem you can put the bad experiences into practice and use them for the new relationships..
My advice to you is to use the bad experiences to learn from and to take things slower at a friendly basis to start of with.. This way you will understand and see a clearer view of the other person..
The bad experiences can only make you a stronger person and other guys respect that..
Good Luck
Jacqueline
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