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writes:I love a girl. She is my friend for years and we went out as friends but we only talk general stuff.. and now she is saying its not gona work because we only talk general stuff.. She said we can try it but no hopes.. so I don't know what I need to do.. she do know how much I love her.. its just I want to make her laugh and comfirtable in romantic way.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (28 October 2007):
 My brother was and is still jealous of me. He says I always had a girl on each arm. I guess he is right now that I think about it.The only thing I did was to treat them as they were the only thing that mattered to me.Choose carefully the words you use to speak to a girl.In other words, you can say something one way and mean it as a total compliment but they may take it a completely different way.For example, you may say; "Boy you have a face that could stop a clock!" and that would offend her.You could say the exact same thing, placing a gentle hand on her cheek or cradling her chin in the palm of your hand, looking into her eyes and saying; "You have a face that could make time stand still."To be romantic has a lot to do with putting guy things aside and showing interest in what she likes. Maybe a moonlit walk in a park or on a beach. Things like that I can guarantee will change her opinion of you. Give it a try. I wish you much success. Doc
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