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writes:hi dearcupid!as everybody say long distance relationships are very difficult and hard to maintain and there arises many problems of misunderstanding.but what my question is that how to maintain a long distant relationship good going?give me some tips..i really love him and so does he.i dont want to lose him coz of distance.pls help me.
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Will you get to see each other at all during those 3 years? If so, how often?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe are studying in different countries.so we are supposed to maintain long distance relationship.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (11 June 2010):
3 years is a long time. Can you give us some more details on your exact situation? The more info we have, the more we can try helping you and giving you some ideas on how to make it easier for you two.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit is a temporary one only!we will be meeting only after 3 years.will it go good?
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reader, TimmD +, writes (10 June 2010):
I've said this many times in the past, and I'm going to say it again:
The only way long distance relationships work is if they are no longer long distance. Eventually both partners have to be together, and permanently. Otherwise, it will not work.
What is your long distance situation? Is it temporary? Long distance relationships like those with one partner in the Army are not standard LDR's. Eventually that partner will be home. It's the relationships where each partner has their own life in a different state, province, or country. And until one person moves to the other, those two people are just kidding themselves.
I'm not trying to be mean or bring you down, but the answer to the long distance question is much more simple than a lot of people realize: How can 2 people have a relationship without being together? You cannot.
So which type of LDR do you have? A temporary one, or one which neither of you have discussed moving to the other?
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