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How to know is it love or just caring or its just fancy?

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Question - (19 June 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2011)
A female Argentina age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Iknow this man ( he is married)about year and have , we got closed in the last 6 months, we got very closed as friends, he kept calling me via emails, phone calls and even long chatt at night. we both share every thing although we both realize how we are different. he saw me as very conservative and serious but ialways tell him its not true , you just didnt get the chance to know me more.he was telling im his soul mate . if he looked for any it will be me. ifound my self falling in love with him, iused to have sms at the morning and emails wishes me productive day at work. igot many calls aday to tell what he is doing at work, how he progress, he told me about his relation to his wife in a breif .

now we met twice and almost slept together . he sent me last time that he was overwhelmed . but since then he doesnt send me any more icalled once but he didnt answer, he used before to tell me he wants to see me but now he seemed very busy with his work . idont know what to do?

does he really care for me or its all was about like hunting me and make me falling in love with him, inenevr had relations before and i told him that idont let any one get that close to me. what to do now?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2011):

Stay away from him, he is married and the fact that you nearly slept together probably made him realize how inappropraite he is being with you and he is risking his marriage. I suggest you learn a lesson from this one and I hope you can realize that you were also in the wrong regarding his relationship.

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