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writes:OK, so I have a few questions abut using a cockring. I'm kinda a novice in this area. First, the reason I want to use one is my GF craves sex, and quite frankly, I am not always super horny because we do it so often. As a result, I sometimes have lazy erections and sometimes I go limp entirely. So I am after firmer, longer erections. However, I also take a long time to cum usually in some positions, and I have read that cock rings can make you less sensitive and even numb. So I am looking for suggestions on teh best material, best fit, etc. I tried one on a long time ago for fun (hard rubber) and it made me so hard it hurt, so I am looking for a hard material I guess. I recently tried on a soft, stretchy vibrating cockring and I didnt care for it so mych...too bulky and not enough "grip" or tightness. Another big question I have is should I wear it just around the base, or put my balls through it too? What advantage is tehre to put your balls through it? What are "rtesticle separators" I read this stuff online but have no idea what I'm after except I wanna stay hard and be harder.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (15 July 2010):
 My suggestions is that you try out a few different kinds. DO NOT get the leather or metal ones. They are not for novices. (and from what I hear not all that comfortable)
Go with silicone/rubber (silicone is usually more flexible so a good start)
For extra "bang for your bucks" you can get one with a build in vibrator to stimulate your girl friend's clitoris. They can be very effective.
Go online google a little, find some that you think sounds good order some and well, test drive a few.
There are also a LOT of "how to" videos on YouTube. Use google.
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