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writes:I've recently started talking to this guy who I've come to really like. I want to take it slow because a) I want to get to know him better before anything happens and b) I've got exams coming up so I need to focus on them more than anything.However, I'm worried that I may be taking it a bit too slow and that he might lose interest or may think that I'm not interested in him. How do I make sure this doesn't happen? Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (25 April 2013):
 Do not worry about taking it slow causing him to lose interest.
If he is interested you being busy with exams and your life will intrigue him.
Men who get frustrated when you don't give them sexual activity are not interested in you. they are interested in sexual activity and the girl it's with does no matter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2013): Take it at the pace that is comfortable for you and dont let your studies slid for him for fear of losing him. If he does lose interest then he just wasnt worth it anyway.
Only time and i mean take your time will tell if he was worth it or not. If he cant wait then let him walk.
Your career options will be greater if you do well at your exams and at the age you are he will not be the last boyfriend you will have. Guys will come and go. You may not think so at the moment. Trust me they will. Some will break your heart and some you will break their hearts. Theres a big world out there for you to explore, keep the focus on you, and your best interests first.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (24 April 2013):
If you want to make him lose interest immediately, then go fast.....
Seriously, go only as fast as you are comfortable with. If he doesnt want to wait, then he is just looking for sex or is simply not right for you at this time.
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