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writes:Hello.I have 2 friends who were previously in a relationship but broke off due to a misunderstanding between each other. The guy complained that the girl was not giving him enough attention.She had not told me while they were in a relationship but now I know the whole thing.she admits she likes him even now. And I think even he likes her though he says he doesn't .Please suggest some ways to get them back together,they make a really cute couple. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2017): I'm being honest with you. Please stay out of others' lives and focus on yours. And also stop fooling yourself that their romantic lives makes any difference to you. I don't think it does or should. Especially when you are a teenager.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 February 2017):
 I agree the BEST thing you can do is stay out of it. IF they really like each other, they will find a way.
As of now, they don't like each other enough to start talking.
Being a "cute couple" is nice if we are talking dolls or kittens.
Letting people sort out these issues themselves if they can't... it's not going to work. You can't "fix" these things and meddle in their lives.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (3 February 2017):
 "Making a cute couple" isn't important. They don't fit well and it's up to them to deal with that. It's nice that you care, but you'll make it worse and potentially lose both friends.
Stay neutral and don't meddle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2017): It's nice that you care and want to be the peacemaker; but they have to work it out themselves.
Teenage relationships don't last very long, and misunderstandings are not the only reasons they may drift apart.
If they still like each other, they may not longer want to be together as a couple. If she doesn't give him enough attention; it may be because she's just too young and she needs time to mature so she knows better how to maintain a relationship. Sometimes they just need a little space to think and they'll miss each other. It works best when they do this on their own.
Be a nice friend in the middle; but allow them to come together if they want to. Meddling sometimes causes more harm than good, even when you mean well.
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