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anonymous
writes: Well I have had this Relationship and it didn't last long. A little over a Month actually. But please don't judge me from that. The woman I dated was everything and more. I loved hearing her voice in the morning. She always was happy to talk to me and call me anytime. She used to be so flirtatious with me and call me sweet names. She promised everything was alright. Yet one tragic day it all suddenly came to an end. I don't know how but she just told me... "It's over and you need to move on." and then she did. i was told she was cheating but i still refuse to believe it because it wouldn't be like her. She is an Angel from Heaven. And it hurt me when she told me "I am done with you" I was heart broken and crushed. I do not understand why this happened. One moment we're exchanging I love yous and the next... its over.The problem is cheating or not I want her back. I don't care what the heck happens she's the only one for me and she's all I ever think about day and night. But its like she doesn't want to hear it. She says we won't get back together but that's not true is it? At least I don't think it is. Everyone wants to help me but the only help I want is from her. She rarely talks to me and I really want to talk to her all the time and now I don't mind if we're back together I just want her in my life. I just don't understand why she did this? Should I chase? I can't move on anymore. She was the one who gave me all this life and light in my soul. Yet its all gone and I can't tell where it is.Can someone help me? I don't know what to do anymore she's the only one on my mind 24/7/365.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 October 2010):
 Im going to be brutally honest because i cant lie. But if she is telling you she doesnt want to be with you at the minute then you cant keep chasing her, as it will only push her further away, i think the best advice for now is to give her some space, dont contact her for a few weeks let her clear her head, then after giving her some space tell her that you still really like her and want to make it work, but you need to give her space first, and after all that if she still doesnt want to be with you, it may seem like the end of the world for a while but believe me it is not, there are plenty of other affectionate girls out there waiting for a man like you, goodluck
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