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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: okay this is really long.i have only ever really had a crush on 2 people. The first was last year, when i thought i really liked this guy but didn't make any moves. It lasted for about 6 months, then i realised i didn't actually like him in that way at all, and felt really stupid. now i think i might have a crush on this other guy, but i'm not sure because i don't want the sae thing as last time to happen, and for me to feel like a total fool.It started before the summer holidays, when we did this drama production. We were both quite main parts, and i got to know him a fair bit. This term we did this music performance together, and we talked quite a lot, but not really alone together.The problem is, he is in the year above me, so now i don't really see him that often, except in corridors. When I do see him, I blush but try to smile, and he smiles or says hi, and afterwards i feel really weak and lightheaded. But he also seems quite good friends with a few of the girls in his year- i know he's been out with a few of them, so i don't think he would ever choose me over them.he's cute, funny and really kind, and i always seem to be hoping to see him.how can i get him to notice me more and get to know him better?do i like him?should i tell him?
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reader, Georgiex.x +, writes (25 October 2008):
It's always difficult to have a crush on someone - you can concetrate, you blush when you see him etc. If you are sure you like this boy you could casually get one of your friends to ask around about girls he knows etc or if you are feelin confident you could ask him yourself and maybe suggest the 2 of you go out sometime. Good Luck! xxxx
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